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Kevin Bacon on Why Marriage is About Play...

26 Sept 2023 · 1 min

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Dara Ladjevardian argues marriage shouldn't feel like work but like play. She uses the metaphor of making music together to show how couples thrive when they genuinely enjoy each other's company and share joyful activities rather than treating the relationship as a chore.

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People talk a lot about, you got to work at it. A marriage is something that you have to work at. And to me, it's less about work and more about play. You have to be with somebody that you want to play with. And you'd mentioned guitars. That's us just playing. We're just playing. We're playing with the goats. We're playing with old songs. She's playing the ukulele. I'm playing the guitar. We're playing with the harmonies. We play, you know, we don't, Always think of it as work. And I just think it's important to remember that.