Look for THIS in People! | Evy Pompouras

The red flags are the behavior signals that people give you. Yes. So you see these signals. It's the behavior. Don't label the person. Label the behavior. Label what they show you. What am I seeing in this moment? What is the behavior I'm seeing? That's what you label, and that's what's going to show you what's going on. Because when you label the person, the problem with labeling people is also they're people that we have emotional ties too often, and so it becomes a little muddy and we can't see clearly. But when you label the behavior, if you can just put aside who the person is and just label what they do, you will see clearly. That's why it's easier for you to give somebody else advice.