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Love isn't a feeling or an idea. It's what you do: how you listen, how you touch someone, how you show up. You can measure it by watching someone's actions, not by what they say they feel.

Love isn't a feeling or an idea. It's what you do: how you listen, how you touch someone, how you show up. You can measure it by watching someone's actions, not by what they say they feel.
Love is not a word. Love doesn't exist. Love is a verb. It's something you practice. So if I want to know how much love you have, then I want to pay attention to your actions and the way you behave towards me. Well, in this case, because we're a partnership, right? And towards people, by the way. How much love you are. And so you are loving, you are kind, you're respectful, you're thoughtful, you engage in the conversation. That's how you love. You're touchy. You're all these different things. So love is, is in that respect, it doesn't exist. Then it's a thing that is just floating out here, you know. The concept of love is a thing that you see in the movies, in TV shows. It's floating. But when you say, you know what, what is really love? Love is a verb that translates into actions.

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