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Love changes which genes turn on and off in your body. Supportive relationships activate repair genes while conflict triggers inflammatory ones. Even cuddling alters your epigenome, making connection a literal biological healer.

Love changes which genes turn on and off in your body. Supportive relationships activate repair genes while conflict triggers inflammatory ones. Even cuddling alters your epigenome, making connection a literal biological healer.
Why is love such a strong healer? Love is medicine. It's the same reason that community is, the same reason belonging is, is because, you know, when we have a deep connection relation with someone, it literally changes our gene expression. So if you're in a loving connection with someone, yes, it's this whole scientific field of sociogenomics, right? How our social relationships affect our genes. And we know if you're in a conflictual relationship, you will turn on genes of inflammation which cause disease and aging. If you are in a loving, connected, heart-centered relationship, you are activating all the repair genes. You literally, through cuddling, can change your epigenome.

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