Matthew Hussey argues that love needs both commitment and compatibility. Two people can be committed but struggle if they lack compatibility in fundamental areas like sexual desire. A genuine match requires mutual admiration, connection, chemistry, and sincere commitment.
You can have love without commitment and you can have commitment without compatibility. I think that it goes beyond commitment to truly love. You have to have two people who are really compatible. Okay, let's say we got commitment. Two people want to be together. They admire each other, they have chemistry, they say, I'm committed to you. But one person's sex drive is here and the other one's is here. Not compatible. This is going to be difficult. To me, you want to say, how do you know when you found your match? I admire this person. We have Connection and chemistry, we have genuine mutual commitment and we're compatible.
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