Make Yourself a Priority

The first step in creating extraordinary personal and business relationships by creating those boundaries is getting clear about your own worth. If my self-worth is dependent on you, then I don't have a relationship. Dependent on what? What you do for me or how you treat me. Yeah, how you treat me, that you like me, that you're nice to me, that you're in a good mood. My joy and well-being has everything to do with you. Meaning if I lose you, I have nothing. And so if my self-worth is based on whether you like me or not, or whether you're in a relationship with me or not, then there's no relationship. They're gonna be up and down constantly then. Right, because there's gonna be a hole that nothing's gonna fill. And so that's why I say put your oxygen mask on first. That means the most important priority in your relationship is not your significant other, it's not your boss, it's not your children, it's not your brother, your sister, mom, dad. You are the most important relationship.