Mike Michalowicz tells his wife his top priority is his health, second is service to the world. She's not in the top two. He says this honesty about priorities, not neglect, is what makes a relationship work.
When we started dating, she asked me the what are your priorities in life? Question. I said, listen, I'm going to tell you the truth, but this may be our last conversation. I go, you will never be my number one priority. Number one needs to be my health, because I need a strong foundation for my second priority, which won't be you either. My second priority will be my service to the world. And no woman wants to not be number one or number two in a relationship. And she goes, I'm so happy to hear this, because I've never dated a man that had a purpose.
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