In-Q argues peace isn't a destination but an ongoing process of uncovering layers within yourself. He describes his current state as the most peaceful he's felt while acknowledging complete peace remains unattained. Painful experiences aren't obstacles to reject but essential threads in the quilt of who you are.
Well, I think people think that peace is a destination or like a product. Peace is a process. There's stages of Peace. There's layers that you have to keep uncovering within yourself. So right now I can say I am as fully at peace as I have ever been. I can't say that I am fully at peace. But one thing that I know about my life is every single thing that has ever happened to me, whether I understood it or not, in real time or in retrospect. has become a part of the quilt of who I am. I don't like to compare circumstances. I don't like to compare pain, but I've had a lot of pain in my life. And everything that caused me pain is a part of my identity now. So if I reject that thing, I'm rejecting a part of who I am. And so you have to accept it in order to integrate it, in order to alchemize it, in order to move on with it.
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