POWERFUL perspective on partnerships

When you enter into a partnership, you become each other's allies, and you both bring wounds to the table. And it actually is a gift to your partner to say, Hey, what's something that I could do to nurture and nourish your inner child? And here's what you could do to nurture and nourish mine. And that's a gift that we give. And it's not about expecting it or demanding it, but if we truly want to heal in relationship, then we actually do take on each other's baggage as a team. And that's not something that a lot of people talk about these days because we're in this our swing to the other end of the pendulum because we've gone from these like very enmeshed relationships now we want to go to this total ultra independence but somewhere in the middle lies the beauty of doing the dance together and saying you know what? I'm your ally in healing, I'm gonna be your partner in healing, how can I love you better? Here's how you can love me better and let's do this thing.