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"Relationship Dynamics are like Cement!" | Guy Winch

22 Oct 2024 · 0 min

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Guy Winch compares relationships to cement: fresh and shapeable when you address problems early, but once hardened, the patterns become nearly impossible to change without damage. Waiting years to fix things is like trying to jackhammer concrete instead of smoothing wet cement.

Relationship dynamics are like cement. You can mold it when it's wet, when it's fresh. But you can't, it's much more difficult.
To do when it's.
Dry and it dries very quickly. So you have to be aware of that.
Yeah, and if you want to jackhammer it two years in the future, because you don't like the way it's laid down, that's going to cause real damage. And it's hard to mend that. It's not like, Well, I've got the Japanese saying where like they break a bowl and it's like golden. It's like, oh, it's not that. This is like you're breaking a road and you're breaking a path and you have to almost create a bridge. Right. Once you break it two years later.