This is a YouTube video titled "Sadia Khan: 'If You're Going to Forgive a Cheater...'" containing a monologue or talk by a single speaker discussing the nature of love, respect, and forgiveness in the context of infidelity, recorded on August 26, 2024.
Your definition of love is I love you so I'm gonna make it work. My definition of love is my love on you is predicated on the fact that you respect me in my absence. Without that reciprocality, we don't actually have love. We have one person attached to another person who is not reciprocating that love. Now, again, you're saying someone who cheats can't love the other person. I've reviewed that idea. What I'm trying to say to you is that when you forgive a cheater, instead of going into it with the rose tinted glasses that, oh, this is so forgiving and so loving, my actual advice would be is if you're going to forgive a cheater, go in with the knowledge that they probably will do it again.
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