Sex is a Coded Language! | Esther Perel

Sex is just a coded language for our deepest emotional needs, even if it's just hit and run sex. It has emotional meaning. What type of meaning does it have? Meaning what you were talking about. I was afraid. I cannot imagine that you being less afraid did not translate in how you make love today. Because tell me how you were loved and I will know a lot about how you make love. Interesting. And if you say, I was afraid to be with you, I was afraid not to be with you, I was afraid to leave you, I was afraid to reveal myself to you, well, then your sexuality took care of all of those fears. Because our emotional history is inscribed in the physicality of sex.