Should Responsibility REPLACE Compassion? | Sadia Khan

The reason why I think self compassion should be replaced with self responsibility is being compassionate with yourself will allow you to think that you are a victim to other people who are just terrible. But when you realize that selection is more important in determining your outcomes than any other factor, you'll be more cautious of selection. Self compassion is forgiving yourself for your mistakes, but not ignoring you made the mistakes. So what I mean by self compassion it's my fault. Everything in life is my fault. I forgive myself. But the other alternative is it's not my fault, it's all them and I just need to fix myself.