Lewis Howes explains why trying to change your partner doesn't work and what actually does. Real change requires the other person to want to grow. Expecting your partner to transform is a setup for resentment and failed marriages.
Don't fix the person you're dating. It's not your job, and you're not capable of it. And if you are dragging a boyfriend or a girlfriend to a level of life that they don't want to live at, what do you think marriage is going to look like? You used a perfect phrase. A growth mindset. Yes, because I cannot change anyone. No, but we all have to change. As life changes. If that person does not come with a growth mindset themselves, oh, I'm in trouble, Ron.
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