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The Difference Between An Insecure Man And a Man With Boundaries...

23 Nov 2023 · 0 min

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An insecure man makes constant demands on his partner. A secure man reads the menu, decides if she's a fit, and leaves if she isn't. The difference is walking away versus trying to control her into changing.

That's the difference between insecure and boundaries. Because here's the thing, a lot of men, they'll say, no, I'm not being insecure, I'm just setting boundaries. But you are being insecure because here's the difference between insecure and boundaries. A secure man will see what you have to offer, read the menu, and decide if he will stay or leave. An insecure man will say, you need to do this, you need to do this, rather than just saying, you are who you are, I'm gonna have to leave. You're not right for me. You're not right for me.