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The HEALTHY Way To Argue In Relationships

19 Oct 2025 · 1 min

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This content was created by Lewis Howes. This content was uploaded by Lewis Howes. This is a YouTube video titled "The HEALTHY Way To Argue In Relationships" discussing the concept of truth in relationships and how arguments are often about perspectives rather than objective truth. The content was created on October 19, 2025.

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There is no truth in relationship. There are just two people who are having their own experiences. And you live in your world, and I live over here in my world. And as long as we're arguing for the truth, we're both going to lose because the truth doesn't actually exist. Like, you just yelled at me. I wasn't yelling. I was just speaking loudly. You're going too fast. I was going five over. If we're fighting the truth, we are fighting a losing battle. Instead, what we're arguing for is your perspective or my perspective getting heard, seen and validated. The way to do this is one person has got to go at a time.