The Love Expert: This is One of The Biggest Myths About Love

One of the biggest myths out there is a relationship should just be easy. First of all, if relationships were just easy, we would be really bored. We need a little friction. We need friction to grow. We need friction to learn more about ourselves and to learn more about the other person. And, you know, maybe that person just thinks, well, I can be in the relationship and just coast. And that's very frustrating for someone to put the work in. And so you have one person who thinks a relationship should be easy, another person whose belief system includes a relationship is what we make of it. And then you got a recipe for a clash.