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The Most Dangerous Money Habit | Morgan Housel

30 Aug 2024 · 1 min

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In this monologue, Morgan Housel argues that the most perilous habit in personal finance is the fear of missing out (FOMO). He explains how observing the apparent wealth of friends, coworkers, or neighbors triggers envy and a compulsion to emulate what is often a curated, misleading display of success. Housel shares a personal anecdote from his time as a valet in Los Angeles, noting that many high‑end cars he drove for guests belonged to individuals whose financial reality did not match the flashy exterior—law firm associates spending half their paycheck on luxury leases, for example. He critiques the American "fake‑it‑till‑you‑make‑it" mindset, warning that people end up chasing the illusion of success rather than the substance behind it, which can lead to poor saving and investing decisions.

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I think the most dangerous trait in money, whether it's saving or investing, is fomo. Fear of missing out. If you are susceptible to watching your neighbors or your friends or your co workers get rich. And that just makes you boil with envy. And even if it doesn't feel like envy, you want you see it. You say, I need that as well. Fake is probably the wrong word because I think it's innocent. But people put their best foot forward, so what they are showing you is not indicative of what it is. In college, I was a valet here in Los Angeles, and it always stunned me that when people would come into the hotel, I work driving a Ferrari, a Lamborghini, a Bentley. When you get to know some of these people, some of them were actually not that successful. They were like a law firm associate who spent half their paycheck on a Porsche lease. Wow. And so the fake it till you make it idea is so powerful in America that if you see, oh, that guy is driving a nice truck, I need to go get one too, because I'm just as smart as I work just as hard as that guy. That's really dangerous because you're not chasing their success, you're chasing their fakeness.