Sadia Khan discusses what happens when women tie their worth to physical appearance: shallow relationships, constant competition, and a fragile sense of self that crumbles as looks fade.
What happens when the looks start to fade in women who've only put their value in their physical appearance? What happens?
Well, what happens is they end up with men who are equally shallow. Here's the thing. If I'm just a pretty face, I'm going to end up with a man who only likes pretty faces. Now the reality is that man is so easily distracted with the next pretty face and the next 25 year old and the next. So what will happen is you're in a constant competition with people you can't compete with for the rest of your life. And, and similarly, if I was somebody who just sold sex and just. I'm going to find a man who's addicted to sex. And men that are addicted to sex will always want novelty. You'll never be enough. So reality is, when you create your identity on something so fragile, you attract somebody who's also very fragile. And then you end up in a lonely cycle, unfortunately. Yeah. Whereas when you develop something deep, you attract someone deeper and your connection tends to be more long lasting. God willing, it tends to be more long lasting.
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