This One Move Makes You Stand Out

This is why, if you open People magazine's Sexiest Man Alive, on almost every page, along with a flexed bicep, are flexed lids. And that is because women find a flexed lid so attractive. Because why? Women and men both want partners who are deeply scrutinizing, who are deeply looking at them. So if I'm sitting when talking to you, and I go, oh, really? I just showed you. Wow, that was super interesting. In fact, when we flex our lids, we're going from just listening to thinking deeply interesting. We're literally trying to see something better. So if you're in a negotiation on a date or with a friend, and they go, really? And they harden their lower lids, you are like, ooh, ding, ding. I just hit something good.