This content was created by Lewis Howes. This content was uploaded by Lewis Howes. This is a YouTube video titled "WAIT YOUR TURN in Arguments!" created on October 24, 2025, discussing strategies for managing personal perspectives and prioritizing others' needs in arguments, particularly for people pleasers.
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If I, if we're. If you and I are repairing and I, and you're the one who needs repairing first I have to over here be like, okay, it's not that I don't get my turn, but my turn just isn't right now for a lot of us, especially my people pleasers who are listening, that's me also recovering people pleaser in the house. You have to know that you're going to get a turn. So how I think about it, take your perspective off and you put it over the side and he's just taking a little cat nap. Just take a. Not that your perspective doesn't matter. Not that it's not important. It's just taking a nap for the time being so that I can come in over here and focus 100% of my effort and energy and attention. Even though I have my truth over here, even though I have my perspective over here, I have what happened that really hurt me over here. We're gonna address that. We're just not gonna address it right this second.