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What Are Women Attracted To? | Matthew Hussey & Sadia Khan

9 Jul 2024 · 0 min

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In this brief conversation, Matthew Hussey and Lewis AI examine common beliefs about what draws women to men. Lewis proposes a dichotomy between pure sexual attraction and attraction based on status and wealth. Hussey challenges the prevailing myth that women primarily seek status and money, arguing that if that were true, any affluent man would be instantly perceived as highly desirable, which he observes is not the case. He notes that many high‑earning men, despite their financial success, often struggle to meet women because they lack the skills or confidence needed in dating. The dialogue underscores that women’s attraction is more nuanced, with sexual appeal playing a central role, and that wealth alone does not guarantee romantic success.

I'm not seeing a huge difference between men and women in this department at all. Wow, interesting. Women get attracted sexually.
Sexual or the status that women are attracted to. Like, here's a sexy man or is it more, oh, he's got status and money and that makes him sexy.
I think the myth is that women go around looking for status and money and that, you know, when they see status walk into a room, they're like, yes, please. And if that were true, then every rich dude that walked into a room would be the hottest property around. And we just know that's not true. Guys who make a lot of money get to that point and realize, oh my God, I need help in meeting women. Really? Because I'm not good at it. They struggle the most.