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What Happens If a Man Seems To Have Everything But Doesn't Have Self-Control...

24 Sept 2023 · 1 min

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If he hasn't got self control, he's a liability to you and your children. Yeah. And you have to remember that.
So what happens when you get in a relationship with a man who on paper looks like they have everything? Great career, they've got money, they've got the car, they got the house, they're put together, dress well, but they lack self control. What will happen down the line? Relationship, marriage, kids.
Unfortunately, if you lack self control, it might look like indulging with other women, it might look like gambling your money away, it might look like eating and consuming the wrong kind of drugs or whatever it is. A lack of self control will lead to a man down a path where he will no longer be able to recognize himself.
Wow.
Whereas self control, he has a consistent identity from the day he's born until the day he dies. Because he dictates his future. Even if he wants to have a day of no control. It was his choice. It was genuinely his choice. If it's one or two days where he wants to get drunk and he wants, it's it. But he's not, he's not subject to the environment or to people and to everybody else.
He's not influenced by his surroundings, he's.
Influenced by his, what his long term goals are.