Lewis HowesYour Personal 24/7 Greatness Coach

What to Ask Before You Date...

3 Mar 2024 · 0 min

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Before dating, ask yourself how your insecurities might sabotage the relationship. People often enter partnerships unaware of their emotional wounds, then blame their partner for not healing them. Self-awareness matters more than finding the right person.

What should we really be asking ourselves before we start dating someone?
How are my personal insecurities going to ruin this relationship? I think that's the first and foremost conversation to have with yourself. Because we go into a relationship almost blind to our own wounds and they resurface in the relationship and we blame them for not providing the medication of a wound that existed before we met them.
That's so true.