True happiness comes from within, not from other people. If you're uncomfortable alone, others won't be drawn to you. You can't expect someone else to give you what you won't give yourself.
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Your happiness cannot be found outside of you. What is happening in our minds, what is happening in our spirits is reflected in our relationships. If we can just focus on loving to spend time with ourselves, because if we don't like spending time with us, why do we think anybody else is gonna wanna be with us? Most of the time we're looking for people to be things for ourselves, for us, that we're not willing to be for ourselves. We have to learn how to be those things for ourselves. We have to be the things we're asking for. So no one can fix us or make us happier or- no. People can assist. They can add to what we can accomplish. They can add to. They can't fix it.