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Why You’re Attracted To The Wrong People

19 Oct 2025 · 0 min

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This content was created by Lewis Howes. This content was uploaded by Lewis Howes. This is a YouTube video titled "Why You’re Attracted To The Wrong People" created on October 19, 2025, discussing the concept of emotional development in relationships and the dynamics of attracting partners with similar emotional wounds.

There is a theory that we attract somebody who is at our level of emotional development. One of my best boyfriends, he was amazing. But I was bored out of my mind and ended up breaking up with him for no reason. But I just couldn't name it, but it just didn't make me feel alive. I had no idea what healthy love felt like. And so what happens when someone wounded attracts someone wounded? Well, guess what? We're gonna hit against each other's wounds.