Lewis Howes defines freedom through four conditions: nothing to gain, nothing to lose, nothing to hide, and nothing to prove. True freedom emerges when your identity is affirmed by spiritual belief rather than other people's opinions, and you see yourself as a steward rather than an owner.
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You can't be free if you're worried about what people think about you. Like, real freedom is when you have nothing to gain, nothing to lose, nothing to hide, nothing to prove. If you have those 4 things, you're free. Whether you have money or not, you have nothing to hide. So if you have nothing to gain— if I have nothing to gain, here's what I mean by nothing to gain. When I am interacting with another person, I am never trying to get anything from them. That's nothing to gain. I didn't come on your show because I hope to gain access to your audience so I can sell more stuff. No, I like you, and I like the books you've written, and I like the podcast that you have, and you seem like a genuinely cool person. If something else happens for me, that's great. But that's not like I want to do it because I want to do it. I've got nothing to hide. I've got nothing to prove. I don't need somebody to believe something about me because the ultimate identity already believes something about me. God believes that I'm worthy of life because I'm still here. I'm worthy of his blessings because I'm blessed. I have, I have health. I have a family. I have people that love me. I have people that I love. And so I have nothing to gain. I have nothing to prove. I have nothing to hide. I'm not doing some sneaky underhanded thing in the shadows and I hope nobody finds out, find out about it. I've got nothing to lose because I'm just a steward and it's not mine anyway.
