You can't regulate a child while an algorithm dysregulates you

That the parent needs to be in supreme emotional regulation. But if the parent is on TikTok— Oh, yeah. Scrolling all day. Scrolling all day. No chance. And the parent is sabotaged and hijacked by comparison and anxiety and perfectionism, and she's feeling lesser than, and the male parent, I'm just talking stereotypically, is dismissive and avoidant and suppressing his emotions, how will they show up for this child now? So I'm telling you, when I wrote Conscious Parenting years ago, 16 years ago, attention was a problem. Talk about how difficult attention is today.