This content was created by Lewis Howes. This content was uploaded by Lewis Howes. This is a YouTube video titled "You Need to Fix Yourself" created on October 24, 2025. It features a dialogue between two speakers discussing personal introspection and emotional self-repair, particularly in the context of a relationship conflict.
I'll never forget.
Emmy, my wife and I were in this fight, and she's trying to repair with me.
It's before bed, and she's doing all this. She's pulling out all the stuff, trying everything. Everything she could possibly do. She's pulling out everything. And we're in there for maybe an hour.
And eventually, I just look at her, and I was like, I don't think there's any way for you to win right now. And she looks at me and she goes, thank you.
And it was actually in that moment that I started to understand this more, that I was like, oh.
This is mine to do.
This is the part of myself, the well of loneliness that I am deeply needing, quote, unquote, needing somebody else to.