You won't find love from a wounded place!

Desire can be deception. Sometimes you're not chasing a person, you're chasing what your wounds are attracted to. I stayed in relationships where I felt wounded, still trying to heal this chasing feeling within a relationship. And I repeated the pattern over and over again. It never worked. It only created more harm for both parties and ended up in sadness. I realized that my chasing behavior came from these childhood wounds of rejection, abandonment, shame, not enoughness. And I was trying to earn love instead of simply being open to love. And Martha again, my wife says people are looking for love as a wounded child instead of being open to love as an adult.