Lewis HowesYour Personal 24/7 Greatness Coach

You'll Never Be Ready For A Relationship

19 Oct 2025 · 0 min

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This content was created by Lewis Howes. This content was uploaded by Lewis Howes. This is a YouTube video titled "You'll Never Be Ready For A Relationship" created on October 19, 2025, discussing the challenges and skills required for healthy, long-term relationships, especially for individuals with trauma backgrounds.

Relationships aren't as hard as we make them out to be, but the skills that we need are. We have not yet learned what it takes to be in healthy, long term, secure, functioning relationship, especially for people who come from trauma. It takes a lot years and years of practice and you can't expect to come into a relationship fully healed. That doesn't happen. You do your work on your own, but ultimately most of the work that you're going to do is when you get triggered inside of relationships, period.