#17: Rewiring subconscious thought patterns to scale your biz with Corin Harris

You know, for a very simplistic term, you're not feeling worthy of receiving that amount of money. Okay, well, of course, whatever you're doing at the time isn't going to feel in alignment because your belief isn't caught up to the fact that you can receive that big amount of money.

Hello, hello. Welcome to the Aligned Coach Podcast. It is your host, Lindsay Badillo. I am so excited to have you here. I'm so honored to have you here and to hold you in this space. So if you are new to the podcast, please connect with me over on Instagram @lindseyrbadillo. B as in boy, A-D-I-L-L-O. That's like a habit to spell that out. So I would love to, I would love to connect with you on Instagram. Let me know what breakthroughs, what takeaways you have from this episode. Today's episode is actually an interview that I had with a lovely friend and fellow Coach of mine. Well, she's not a Coach of mine, but she's definitely a friend of mine. And her name is Corinne. And Corinne and I, oh my gosh, we go into so much of good stuff during this, during this episode. We talk about human design, about subconscious thought patterns, about healing wounds, limiting beliefs, and how to do it all in a way that actually builds your business, right? So if you're listening, you're probably an online coach thinking of becoming a coach or really scaling your business and working on bringing in consistent clients. So you are going to take so much from this episode. I promise you, you're going to want to have your notebook. You're going to want to come back to it if you're driving or you cannot take notes right now. Corinne gives really, really straightforward advice in here and actual homework to implement. So it's very, very good if you are getting ready to uplevel, if you are pivoting your messaging, if you're trying to figure out your niche. Y'all know I have a love-hate relationship with the word niche, but this episode gives some very, very tangible advice in what to do if, yeah, that's been like plaguing you and your business lately. 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Let's hop on over to Corinne. Okay, welcome, welcome everyone. Welcome back to the Aligned Coach Podcast. I am so excited for today's guest. We have Corinne Harris. Corinne is a friend of mine. She is a coach that's actually in a mastermind that we're both a part of. And yeah, I'm so freaking honored and so excited to have her here. She's also the founder of the UniQueen Mastermind and the sold-out CEO HighLevel Mastermind. She is a freaking queen in what she does. So welcome, welcome, welcome to the Aligned Coach Podcast, Corinne.

Ah, thank you so much. And I'm so, so, so excited to be here. And I just love the way that you phrase that. And yeah, you know, it's just like stepping into that CEO power and owning all of your queeness. And, you know, just so people know, Uniquine, like Unleash Your Uniquine, my like I would say like starter intermediate level mastermind. UNI-QUEEN came from like, you're not just a queen and you're not just a unicorn. You are freaking both. You're a magical superhuman and sold out CEO. So CEO just means female version of CEO.

Oh, I love it. So good. So good, Corinne. Um, okay. So I kind of just gave everyone a rundown, but of course we met several months ago or a few months ago, through a mastermind that we're both in. And now we both help female entrepreneurs, female coaches that are in this, in this space of helping others at the transformational space. But can you give everyone just like a quick rundown of who you are? A little bit more into what you do, into who you help and how you do it?

Yeah, so who I am. So I'm Corinne. And if you want to use like the TikTok thing of like, what's your name? What's your age? What's your sign? Like all that crap. My name is Corinne. Corinthia is my full name. So if you ever looked it up, I think Facebook is still Corinthia. But people on the Instagram sphere know me as Corinne or Your Coach Corinne. And, you know, I am 29. I'm an Aries. I'm a projector in human design, all the things. I'm an Enneagram type 6, in case you wanted to know that. And what I do, like Lindsay said, is I just, you know, I help female coaches and I really help them either start or scale their business. And right now I'm helping and really focused on those trying to scale their business. So like they've already had some success. Maybe they're in that like $4K to $8K a month range, but they can't seem to like break that income ceiling. And maybe they've had all the business strategies or at least like the beginner level like marketing and like how to get your business started type of things. But they haven't really infused like the deep subconscious, like energetic block work that goes into it. So like that's like both on your like feeling into your body and your deep subconscious mind, as well as also working into like your human design and kind of just playing with that as an extra marketing tool. And then also using like the feminine and masculine powers. So like I always say, like my coaching trifecta is like, you know, a triangle. So there's 3, like you have like your marketing, like obviously I have 6 years plus of like corporate marketing manager experience. And then on the other side of the triangle, you have like your deep NLP, like subconscious work. So like I always say, that can include like inner child work, shadow work, frickin ego work, like whatever you want to call it. You can incorporate and infuse all those things. And like my clients always notice, like when I do guided meditations or hypnosis, like specifically for them and around their blocks that all infuse like a little piece of each if I feel it's needed. And then at the top of the triangle is like your human design. So I always say like those are like the ways and the pillars that I work with people. And with that, like it's all, it's all energy, right? So it's like working with your masculine and your feminine energies as well. So that is what I do, who I help and how I help them.

Oh my God, that is so good. That's like literally all things that I'm obsessed with. I think that most people that listen listen to this podcast and that like, you know, are in this audience, like they are very much in tune with like, yes, following the strategy. Yes. Like following marketing, you know, like doing the, doing the things, right? Having a plan. But also like feeling into what their body wants, right? Like feeling into their soul, feeling into their heart and like healing, healing the things that come up along the way, you know, like uncovering the shadows. And it's so crazy because like last year. Yeah, last year during like the start of the pandemic, whenever we were all like freaking quarantined and couldn't leave the house. Like I remember diving in really deep. Have you ever read the book of She? It's about the heroine's journey. Oh, so good. So it was the first time I ever came across this term, but like your demon and your daemon, right? So oh my god, you know, you're nodding your head. Okay. So it was, you know, it's basically like uncovering like your shadow, but also like looking at the those parts of you that could be seen as like a downfall or like could be seen as like, you know, a less than desirable trait, I guess, you know, but, but turn it into like your superpower, right? Like turn it into something that works for you. At least that's the way that I interpret it. So I think that that's like a lot of what we talk about here on the Aligned Coach podcast, you know, on Instagram and stuff. So it sounds like what we do is very, very similar. So yes, I know that everyone listening is gonna love this episode. They're gonna love hearing from you. Okay, so tell us, what did that look like? Like, how in the world did you even like come up with like this trifecta, right? Like your triangle. I love the way you described it, you know, and how did you like get to a place to where you were okay with because like, I literally just did an episode on like, to not niche down anymore. Like, please everyone stop niching down, like niche down, but like, don't know your niche forever, you know what I mean? So, so how can you— like, how did you get to a place to where you're like, yes, I coach business, but I'm still like in tune with spirit and like I'm still doing like, like deep healing work, you know? And you're okay with that? You don't feel like you're all over the place? Like, like that is your niche, right? And it's like ever-evolving. So I'm just curious, like, can you share that process? Because I know that so, so, so many coaches, so many leaders, lightworkers, like also feel that pressure to niche down and they feel that pressure to like say, okay, I'm a spirituality coach or I'm a business coach, like, and they don't feel like they can be both, or they feel like if they, if they do nail down, then they're going to be like copying someone else or they're not going to be original or like authentic. Okay, so yes, share your journey on that because I know that's going to help so many people.

Yeah. So first I wanted to like touch on when you said like the demon and like how there's like that dark part of you and then like also that light part of you. Yeah. So the way I always like to interpret that is like basically like the easiest way, the most simplistic way to think about it is like either angel and devil on your shoulder or ego and alter ego. So your ego is always just trying to like keep you safe and keep you from repeating patterns or things that like made you feel hurt, unseen, unsupported in the past. And so that might be why those things keep happening in your life or why you keep manifesting things you don't want. Whereas your alter ego is like that, like basically twin of your ego that's like, hey, like, I see you, I hear you, I love you to death. But I also want to go fucking be me and be fully seen and fully expressed. And like, you know, if you go and look at like all my stuff from when I was in L.A., that was me. That was my alter ego. That is who I am when I am being the fullest, most authentic expression of me. Because someone even asked me, like, how can you be kind of like spiritual and do all this healing work? But also really love bougie, like luxury type stuff and stay at 5-star hotels. And I was like, because I can be whatever the fuck I want to be. And that lights me up. Like, I deeply love helping others feel fully seen and fully expressed and actually feel, feel safe in their body and in their minds to be seen and supported like that and to receive, you know, a shit ton of money at the same time. So that's the way that I like describe that. And then as it comes to like getting to this multi-passionate journey and like not niching down, You know, obviously we all start with a niche. Like I think especially if you're starting out, like it does really help you because it helps you get used to crafting your marketing message and narrowing down that focus. And I always like to say, if you think of like Oprah or Tony Robbins, like they started small and then they started to cast their net wider and wider and wider. And so now when people see them, they're like, oh, well they didn't have to start that way. And like, you might not have to start that way, but sometimes it can really help to really bring in your focus. But as you're growing and evolving, allowing your different passions to come in is what's going to allow people to see you for who you are and what you really truly want to do. Like the deep core of your essence, the deep core of your being, the core of your mission and your values and your business. Like that's how like I got to that safe and supported space because I started as a health and fitness coach. I did that for a really, really long time, especially part-time while doing my marketing corporate job. And then I like resisted the urge so much to switch to business and mindset coaching. Mainly because at the time I felt like I had to, you know, kind of give everybody what they wanted. I couldn't do what I wanted. So it was like everyone at the time was so obsessed with the word manifestation. So it was like, would I become a manifestation mindset coach? And then I was like, well, I don't know if I'm really teaching manifestation. And like now there's some of my clients who like, if you were to ask them what I do, they would probably say manifestation. But at the time, like, I just was like, that doesn't jive with me. And like, I felt so weird to like just pivot to being like a mindset coach because I was like, I feel like that's so broad, even more broad than like health and fitness coaching. And I feel like mindset and business coach confuses people. And so it was allowing myself to like take that baby step, like start as a mindset coach, like pivot from health and fitness coach to mindset coach. And then I realized like I was actually really supporting my clients with both their business and their mindset. So I was like, okay, mindset and business coaching. And as it evolved over time, the more and more I help my clients, I realized, especially because starting 2 years ago was when I really started to do the deep subconscious, like healing and energetic work. And working with mentors that could support me in that, that's when like the light bulb went off for me. And I was like, oh, okay, that's how I can feel safe and supported in charging high ticket. That's how I can feel safe and supported in doing what I want to do and being fully expressed and fully seen. And like, granted, it's a journey. It took me a long time to get to where I was. Like a year ago, I probably would not have gone off to Beverly Hills, to LA, to all the places and stayed in 5-star hotels and like bragged, you know, bragged about it on Instagram.. And when I say bragged, I really mean celebrate the shit out of myself. And a year ago, I would not have felt safe doing that. Like I would have continued to hide. I would have continued to hide all my business. And that's because there was still some healing and some subconscious energetic blocks I got to overcome in order to get from point A to point B. And so in finding that like 2 years ago, like when my journey really started, that's when I started to infuse that more and more into my health and fitness coaching. Then it pivoted to mindset and business coaching. And now with my clients, like, I think they're almost like shocked if we get off a call and we didn't touch on some sort of energetic or subconscious block that they're having. Even when it comes to like my group programs, even if I'm teaching you like the marketing foundations or business foundations, always like weave in there like something about like, you know, try not to do this or reframe this so that way it's not like blocking you or cock blocking you from getting what you actually want. I love using that cock blocking. I love it. So It's really just like allowing yourself to like start narrow, I think. And then as you evolve and as you adapt, you know what you are passionate about and what really resonates with you. And like I always say this, like it's the process of like elimination basically. Like you're going to go, you might start coaching on one thing and then you might realize you fricking hate coaching on that thing. And so then you're like, okay, out of those elements of what I was coaching them on, what did I really love? What really lit me up? What could I talk about 100 ways to Sunday? And still be like, yes, this is my jam. So that's when it was like I was able to start talking about, you know, subconscious, energetic mindset healing. Like, that's like all-encompassing for me. Like, that includes the inner shadow work, that includes the inner child work, the ego work, the alter ego work, the freaking energy in your body and manifestation, as well as like the feminine, masculine. I include that all in that little pillar. But it's a lot of things. And like, I just allow myself to be like, you know what? I dabble in those. I've worked on those. I'm going to help others with those because I know that that's like the key and like the foundational pillar to all these other elements of like your marketing and like even human design. I say use it as a marketing tool, not as a crutch or a limiting belief. Like just because I'm a projector in human design does not mean that I can't go do the damn thing and I have to sit here and wait for an invitation. Like there's different ways to think about it. And that's really why I say like we focus on that foundational pillar of all this subconscious energetic work. So Long story short, that is like how I kind of went along and was like, you know, started narrow, started casting my net wider and wider. And I think that's like key for everyone. It's like, as you evolve and as you adapt, is like allow those passions and those things that really light you up. Like you could tell I just went on a rant, like to just let them come out and let them be seen because that's when you're going to magnetize people to you and become that client magnet, become that money magnet or whatever freezing you want to use because it all literally means the same thing.

Yeah. Oh my God, that was so good. Like it literally like gives me like chills to like talk about that. Oh, that's so good. I love it. And you're so right. It's like whenever you do the thing that like really lights you up, like literally like the thing that you could not, like you could talk about all day, like the thing that would make you forget to eat, like the thing that you would drive people talking, like drive them crazy because you could talk about it so much. Like that's the thing that you should be doing, right? And it's not to say because, you know, I also did not start in like business coaching, quote unquote. Like I started in relationship coaching. And looking back, like I, it was great to start with, you know what I mean? And it was like, and now, now that I've like shifted, it's still the foundation for how I teach, you know? Like it's still very important to me, like establishing relationships, working from the heart, like embodiment practices, all those things. But now like I've gotten even closer, right? And even truer and even like even more authentic to who it is that I want to work with and how it is that I can heal. So it's like you're not scrapping. And this is for anyone that is like thinking of pivoting or anyone that's like really struggling with their messaging. Like don't overcomplicate it, right? Like just find one thing that like you can talk about that you're, you know, 2 to 3 steps ahead of someone else in, right? Wherever you were maybe a year or 2 years ago. And then just, okay, just start there, right? And then if you decide to pivot, if you decide to change, which you should always be pivoting technically, like really, like I encourage you to like constantly take a look at your messaging.

Yeah.

Constantly like look at that and tweak it. But you're not like leaving that stuff in the background. Like you're not just leaving it, you know, leaving it behind. Like you're always like incorporating that, you know, because like with you, like you started in fitness, right? And that's all about like taking care of your body, listening to your body. And then you got deeper. Then you were like, okay, let's heal the subconscious stuff, you know? And now all of that is like in your business model, you know, of helping others build their businesses. So I think that this conversation is like validating to a lot of coaches, you know, that are starting out or that are thinking of pivoting because maybe they're not totally on fire about what it is that they do anymore. And like, if anything, like, you deserve to be on fire about like what you do every single day, you know, like no matter what your job is, or no matter like who, what, whatever you call yourself, like you deserve to be passionate about it and to enjoy talking about it, right? Like, That's why we went into this business, you know, this entrepreneurship world was to like do what lit us up. So if you're miserable or if you're feeling totally unaligned, yeah, like what advice would you give them?

Well, so one thing I always like to say is like alignment literally has nothing to do with feeling good. So like it cracks me up when like people say that or try to use it as like a block because that's really what it is. It's your ego trying to like cockblock you again. So it's like, what is it that you're not feeling aligned to? And then ask yourself like, why am I feeling this way? Because again, it doesn't have to do with the feeling. It's really the belief that's at the subconscious level. So if your belief is saying that like you're not, you know, for a very simplistic term, you're not feeling worthy of receiving that amount of money. OK, well, of course, whatever you're doing at the time isn't going to feel in alignment because your belief isn't caught up to the fact that you can receive that big amount of money.

Does that make sense? Yeah, yeah, yeah, I get it.

Yeah, it's like really digging into that and asking, okay, what's the belief or the fear beneath this unaligned feeling that I'm currently experiencing? And then digging into that and being like, okay, if that's the fear, what is it that I'm truly avoiding? And what is it that I'm truly afraid of at like my deep core? And how can I shift that and reframe it into this is what I get to do instead? Hey ego, I see you, I validate you, I understand you've been keeping me safe this whole time, but you know what, we're going to become best friends. I've got us from here. Like, let's go do and go in this direction. I've got it. Like That's really like what it comes down to. And I always challenge people when they say they're feeling unaligned. Are you like, are you really not feeling aligned? Or is there something beneath that that you get to dig into?

That is so good. Because you know that like, my program is literally called Aligned Coach Academy. Oh my god, it's so good. Okay, so let's just like put it like in more like step by step for someone because I think that that was so beautiful the way that you just framed that. So let's just like, for, for the sake of this example, let's say that someone is like, struggling to like find their niche, they're struggling to like land their first few clients. And there's like a gap, right? There's a gap in the way that they're showing up or they're not feeling super aligned, quote unquote, with, with what they're doing. So the very first thing that you would say to them, Corinne, is to—

Yeah. So if they're struggling to find their niche and like a step there would just be like, okay, well, what lights you up? Like, what are you passionate about? What are the things you feel like you are like highly skilled at or people compliment you on all the time, whether it's in that realm that you thought you were going to be coaching on or not, just put it down. Allow yourself to like come up with things that you actually are really passionate about, your skills, and then things people compliment you on all the time. Like write those down on a piece of paper, even like draw bubbles around it, whatever you need to do. And then take it out from there. Like, okay, underneath that, here's some things and spider legs and ways I could spiderweb this out of like what else I could coach on. And, you know, sit there and like I always say, like set a timer for like 10, 15 minutes. Like don't go crazy. Like Just allow yourself to have fun with it. Get it out, set on some R&B, open a bottle of wine, whatever you got to do, and just sit there. Like, this is like step 1, like map that out and then allow it to sit there for like a minute or 2 and then go back and cross out all the things that does not light you up, do not like hit a chord with you. And then you're going to find in there there's a common theme. Okay, well, what is that common theme? And then when you find that common theme, boom, there's what your niche can be.

Oh my God, it's so good.

It's to be so simple.

It does get to be so simple. Okay, so, so, so what if they like find that thing, right? They do that process. So everyone listening, and you're struggling on this, like, go do this thing. So let's say that they have found that thing. And then they feel the pushback, right? And then they're like, oh no, like the ego chimes in. They're like, nope, can't do that. Because, you know, I don't have enough experience, or I don't have a degree in that, or I, you know, I'm just starting out, like, I can't start there yet. Like, what would you what would like the next level be? And I feel like this is probably going to go into like that subconscious work, you know, like that limiting belief work. So like what would you tell them to do from there?

So that would be like step 2 where it's like if you're feeling that pushback or that resistance, like really asking yourself, like journaling it out, sitting down and like meditating on if you need to, and asking yourself like, am I really not feeling aligned to this or am I just feeling resistance because there's something waiting for me on the other side of that breakthrough? Like I would say like where there's that breakdown, there's opportunity for that breakthrough. Like that's where your next biggest breakthrough is coming. So if you're feeling unaligned to something, like for example, for me it was like I was feeling a lot of resistance when I was pivoting into mindset and business coaching. So it was like, okay, am I resisting it because it's not what I want to do and I'm not actually feeling aligned to it? Or am I resisting it because I'm actually just deeply afraid of it? And what is it that I'm afraid of? So then that's when you sit down and you write out like, what is it I'm actually afraid of? What's the fear beneath that thought that's happening or that resistance that's happening? And then what's the belief that I made up about myself as to why this can't happen for me? And then how can I reframe that for myself so that it can happen, so that I can feel safe and supported, so that I can feel safe and supported in being fully seen and stepping into this new level, this next level, this next pivot?

Yeah. Oh my gosh. So let's like, whoever's listening, let's say, for example, you are thinking about going into, let's just say, like manifestation coaching, you know, that is a hot topic, right? We just talked about that. Or even like spirituality coaching. They're like, okay, this is the thing that's come up for me, but I feel resistance, right? I feel resistance because like, these are just some examples, um, there are still things that I'm manifesting that have not came true yet. So that could be like a limiting belief. That's why I can't do it, right? Because they've— these things have not came to fruition for me. So like, who am I to speak on that? Or, um, I don't have all the answers, right? Like, I don't have 10 years worth of like experience in this. Like, I don't, I'm not qualified enough, you know. Okay, so from that point, they found those limiting beliefs, okay, and then they would go even deeper, right? And they would say, like, okay, what is this actually? What am I actually like afraid of? So I guess it would be like, being seen as like a fraud, or even being seen at all, you know, like literally like being afraid of being seen, of being judged, of repelling people, you know, like in the beginning, there's so much resistance to niching down, because people are afraid, like, I don't want to push people away. Like, you know, then I won't get any clients. So that could even be like an underlying fear that like literally there won't be any clients for them, you know?

Well, and it's too like the same thing happens like when you find those limiting beliefs, like, you know, they always say, and like, I hate this cliché just because it's so well known and everyone uses it, but it's like new level, new devil, right? So you're of course going to come across some resistance at your next level or you're going to come across some resistance in like terms of like being tested almost by the universe and by your spirit and by your ego of like the clients that are showing up. Are they actually aligned to you? Are they actually someone that energetically vibes with you? Are they actually someone that you want to let into your world? Or are they going to test the shit out of you? So like you also have that like that point in your like communication with them to decide like, is this a soulmate client? Is this someone I want to let into my world? So when it comes to like limiting beliefs, there's so many like multifaceted levels. And especially as you continue to grow and you continue to elevate. So, you know, for example, like you said, like I'm afraid of being seen like a fraud. The more you grow and the more you step into that CEO level, especially like it's going to put a microscope on you. Like people are going to see you. You're almost going to become like a celebrity. You're more seen, you're more heard, you're more visible. And like that is the whole point of growth. Like you are getting more seen, you are getting more visible. And like I even teach that in my sold-out mastermind is like how to get more visibility, how to increase your growth, how to increase like different channels, like blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. But you like, you have to be aware and like this might not be the case for everyone, but you might meet some resistance. And when you meet that resistance, that's really just your ego being like, I'm a little scared right now. And like it's all your limiting beliefs and all your fears of like, oh my God, what is this person going to think? And it's almost like happening again. But a different level. And it might be different thoughts that are like that next level thought of like, you know, worst case scenario, like what could go wrong type of thing. And like if you're an Enneagram 6 or projector listening to this, then you know that like that is just your natural habitat is to do that. But it's like really allowing yourself to like step back out of the moment and almost be again like that observer of your thoughts and write them down and be like, OK, and like start to create like an evidence procedure list for yourself of like These are my limiting beliefs. These are the thoughts. These are all the things that I'm afraid are going to happen. Here's why I'm afraid they're going to happen, like the fear beneath those thoughts. And really, like at the deep core of it, like what's that limiting belief, that biggest belief that I've like kept to and hold on, held on to my entire life, whether that's like you feel like you don't belong, you're too much. And like women especially have that like inconvenience wound, like in their feminine essence of like feeling like they're going to be too much if they are fully seen and fully expressed and fully embody themselves. So it's like really digging beneath that and then creating this list on like the other side of the piece of paper almost of like, okay, well, here's all the times in my life where it did work out. Here's all the times where I was scared and it did work out. Here's all the times where I invested in myself or grew to that next level or, you know, really put my ass on the line kind of thing. And oh, here's where it did work out. Or like, here's where I helped someone and I felt like I was only a couple steps ahead of them. Oh, and guess what? It worked out. So it's like all those different things because If you think about it, like we are, we are the meanest to ourselves, like especially as females, we are the meanest possible thing to ourselves. Nobody's actually thinking that. Nobody's actually doing that. And if they do, like they're not your people, like you get to just kind of move on. And that's when it comes back to like energetics of like where are you cock blocking yourself, where are your limiting beliefs and your ego cock blocking you and where do you get to shift that and create these evidence procedures for yourself so you can then actually go and, you know, actually attract and manifest what you want in your life, the results, your desires.

Yeah. Oh my god, I feel like I'm gonna have to like go back and listen to this episode whenever we get done and like literally do some of these things. Just because it's always good to like be checking yourself, you know, like always good to be like doing the work. Because you're right, like it is like overplayed, new level, new devil. But it does, it comes up every single— like I would say for me, like I'm doing like like work. I'm doing the work, quote unquote, like every single month because every single month, like it's like another layer is like being peeled back. You know, it's like, okay, well, like this month you get to work on this. Well, then you think you're in the clear and then it's like the next month, oh, now you got to work on this, you know. So it's like a constant process. Oh, that was so good. Like, thank you for that step by step by step example.

And I was gonna say too, in my Sold Out CEO Mastermind, like So I'm trying to think. Yeah, I have 3 people enrolled in it, and then there's like a couple people I'm still talking to, but like there's only 6 spots altogether. And the reason for that is because I am offering like a lot of one-on-one time with me. Like you basically get what I call like unlimited or like emergency calls with me. So you'll have a few of those per week, and then you also have the group call. And what I'm teaching them in this is like, okay, cool, you've had some success in your business, or you've really gotten the mindset piece down, and like you're like ready to really uplevel and scale. And get the tools in your tool belt to do so. But at the same time, it's like teaching you that like CEO mindset and then like how to embody that and step into it. So it's like, you know, what is your like actual like getting cozy with your money? Are you actually tracking it all the time? Are you doing all these things to like actually manifest your next level and your quarterly results or your monthly results? And like embodying that on such a deep energetic and subconscious level so that way you can go ahead and do the next level marketing or the next level business strategy and actually feel again, safe and supported by it. Like to receive all that and to step in and be fully seen.

So good. So, so good. Thank you so much for that. I know that like the women that are coming into your CEO, like next level fricking sold out CEO mastermind, like they are going to be so fricking supported, like in so many ways. That's so awesome. So y'all, like Corinne literally just took a trip to California like, like what, 2 weeks ago?

Yeah, it was 2 weeks ago now.

Yes. And she was like all the vibes. Like we're both on the East Coast. So she was like living her best life these like 2 weeks ago and it was so good, y'all. And yeah, it's just really like, it's just a reminder to like constantly like challenge yourself, constantly like put yourself like in the energetic field that like you want to be in. Like we were just talking before the call about, you know, just how she had like an entire— like the alter ego like literally came to like full surface while she was there because like she was putting herself like literally in the energetic field that like she's opening up like the next level of her life to, you know. So yeah, for anyone listening, that's really just like, like a reminder to you to like, you know, separate yourself from your environment if you need to. You know, give yourself that space. Like, like, literally get the bottle of wine, light the candle, turn on the music, like set the vibration for like what it is that you're calling in, you know.

Um, that's kind of like off, off the topic here, but it's such a good reminder that like energetic field, like, you know how they always say like gratitude is a very feminine essence. So like when you step into that alter ego version of you, that can look very feminine. Like when I was in California, I was like grateful every 5 seconds. Like I was like, oh my god, this is happening, this is happening, like I'm manifesting this, like like manifested an upgraded seat, like manifested a free hotel room for one night, like all these different things. And it was like, you know, all the vibes, all the gratitude and really just allowing yourself to step into that and try to be in your alter ego or feminine essence as much as possible. And like, I mean, I'm playing around with now too, and I've been sharing this with clients is like almost like that next level too. And like, I'll be teaching this in the Sold Out CEO program of like orgasmic manifestation and what that looks like. Because again, like stepping in and leaning back into your feminine, that's a, that's a huge part of becoming a CEO. That's a huge part of it. Like so many people think that it's so much of the masculine and like there is, there's a balance, but it's like the divineness, not the wounded. So that's like, that all plays a huge part in your energetic field as well, like you were talking about. So when I went out to California, like you best believe it was like I just kind of put things off to my team and I was like, I'm over here like living my best life.

Oh my God, it's so good.

I got to feel like clients and stuff, but like I actually switched hotels and the reason— so I switched hotels to a 5-star one and like the reason I switched hotels was because like the hotel I was at, it was a 4-star hotel, was nice. I hadn't, you know, gotten a free hotel room for one of the nights, but like my Wi-Fi wasn't working. And so like my Voxer, it would like tell me it was connecting. So like I wasn't like getting messages and I was like, I don't know what's happening. And like same with like any of my like communication channels for like my mentors, for like my clients. I was like, well, Clearly, I got to handle this because if I'm not getting messages, like, I can't check in on them. So it's just like allowing yourself, like, in that moment, like, I could have let that be like a huge breakdown or a huge, like, freak out moment. I just was like, all right, cool. How am I going to handle this? Okay, tomorrow morning I'll wake up, I'll switch hotels, like, not a big deal. And then I switched hotels and went to a 5-star one. So it was like just stepping in and leaning back and allowing that, like, to happen and for you to feel safe. And like, what I wanted to say on that too is like, A lot of times our ego, or a lot of times when we're entering that new level, we'll get stuck in this position of like, you know, if this, then that happens. Or like, you'll be looking at it from all— it's almost like you pop back into your circumstances. Like, you've done all this work, you've become the bomb-ass coach that you are, but then it's like when you're about to scale, you're about to break through to that next level, you fall back into like circumstantial, or you fall back into thinking of like all the things that you stand to lose versus all the things that you stand to gain from. Like, whether it's an investment in time, energy, money, like you forget that it's like all these things that are gonna come back to you tenfold, like what you stand to gain. And like I always say, a lot of times that's like in your energy and in your time and in your financial abundance. Like, yeah, it gets to be as amazing as you let it be.

Yes, yes, you're so right, you're so right. And it's like all of that, like you have to say yes to receiving, you know? Like anytime you're about— like it's almost like you can feel it, like whenever you're about to step into that next level, It is like you don't know what it is, but like you feel it in the core of your stomach, like something big is about to happen. So, like your job in that moment, like just surrender, like stop trying to figure it out. Stop trying to like get everything perfect and like literally just say, OK, like I receive it, like I am ready for it. I receive it and like literally like allow yourself to just, you know, to just take whatever it is that like God, the universe is trying to give to you in that moment. Oh, so good. So, Corinne, we could talk for like days, literally, but I just want to make sure that everyone everyone knows where they can find you after listening to this episode, because I know that like once they've listened, they're gonna just like be wanting more, they're gonna want to soak up more. And I know that like you do trainings, you talk about this stuff all the time on your Instagram. So yes, where can people connect with you if they want to soak up all of your goodness and just really step into like this next level CEO version of themselves and, and really like do the deep work and build their business?

Like, where can they do that? Yeah, so you can definitely find me on Instagram @yourcoachcorinne, and Corinne is spelled C-O-R-I-N-N-E. And so you can find me there. I would say like that's my biggest channel, or you can find me on Facebook at Corinthia Harris. And if you are looking to scale your business and also step in and do even more of the basically uncockblocking yourself from like receiving abundance in your energetic field, in your deep subconscious, then definitely hit me up for the Sold Out CEO program. There's 3 spaces left right now when we're having this conversation. I don't know what that's going to look like next. And then yeah, there's a link in my bio to apply for that in the meantime, or shoot me a DM and like chat it up. If you're like, I listen to Lindy's podcast, you're either crazy or I love you. Like all the things I always, I always respond.

So, ah, yes, yes. Y'all could do that. That's awesome. Okay. So thank you so much for coming on, Corinne. I have loved this. Y'all, like, if you did not have your journals out, like taking notes during this, like I highly recommend whenever you're not driving to like re-listen, get your notebooks out and like literally do the work. Because there is such a difference in like just listening to it and consuming it and think that you're doing the work because you're watching other people do the work than actually doing the work. So I encourage anyone listening to, to really dive deep into this and to see what comes up for you and let us know, let us know. Leave a review for us. Let us know if you like this comment. I mean, if you like this interview, go and message Corinne, let her know what breakthroughs you had. I would love to hear what your favorite takeaways were. You can message me on Instagram @lindseyrbadillo. And yeah, I'm really looking forward to it. I hope that you all enjoyed this and I will see you next time.

Thank you so much, Corinne. Thank you, Lindsey.