In this spoken monologue, Lois Letchford – author of Reversed: A Memoir and self‑described “literacy problem solver” – reflects on how unsuccessful learning can become a source of long‑term trauma for children and their families. She begins with a brief recount of her own son’s struggles, which first alerted her to the lasting impact of failed learning experiences. Letchford then describes a conversation she initiated on social media with a mother whose son was severely traumatized by school (including being locked in a cupboard) and who has been unable to write about the experience. The exchange illustrates how the pain of educational failure can inhibit even basic storytelling. Letchford expands the discussion to critique the persistence of outdated, restrictive schooling practices over the past fifty years, arguing that these continue to limit children’s lives and inflict trauma. She ends with a call to action, urging viewers to like, subscribe, and stay tuned for further content on the subject.
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Hello, I'm Lois Letchford, author of the book Reversed: A Memoir and literacy problem solver, talking to you this week about when learning is trauma. I talked about my son. He was the first inkling about the impacts of learning long-term on children when it's not successful. I've been connecting with other people Through LinkedIn and Facebook, and at various times, and they comment on my posts. And a couple of ladies commented on one that I put up, my box lesson. And one lady said, Lois, I can't like it. I contacted her and said, talk to me. My son's journey happened by accidents. And she wrote back and said, my son didn't make it through school. He was traumatized. He was locked in a cupboard. This happened and something else happened and the other happened. And I said to this lady, share your story. Let's share your story. Send me a blog post and I'll put it up and we'll share it around. That's fine. I'm staying in touch with the lady and in touch and I'm waiting for a blog post. The blog post didn't come. So I said, "How are you doing? I hope everything's all fine. What's going on? Hope you're happy." And it comes back. Yes, I'm still thinking about it. I'm writing about it. When people take so long to do something, it's not just a writing problem. I'm always looking for what's going on behind, and I realize that this experience for this lady. was so traumatic for her and her son that even writing about it was too hard. That's trauma. I said it the other day, we send our children to school, we expect them to learn within a normal fashion, and everyone's surprised when they don't. But I think on top of the surprise that they don't not only learn, It's that then they come out with these horrific experiences for failure to learn. And I start to wonder what has happened over the past 50 years in learning that we are still doing these same practices that limit our children's life and traumatise them. Think about it. I'm Lois Letchford. Literacy Problem Solver. Hit like, hit subscribe, and I'm back tomorrow. Thank you.