Marcel FernandesCEO and Founder at Cel Education

This is key #personaldevelopment #selfimprovement

6 May 2025 · 1 min

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Marcel Fernandes walks you through writing a list of everyone you blame for your failures, then destroying it. Next, you write a new list with only your name on it as responsible for your success. The shift from blaming others to owning your outcomes is what changes everything.

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Write down all the reasons for not being rich, all the reasons that you can think of for not being rich and for not living a good life so far. My parents, my teachers, my people who used to bully me in school, my ex-girlfriend, my wife took everything in the divorce, or, you know, the economy, the government, like anything that you can think of that your mind comes up with, write it down in a list called blame list. Write it down on pen and paper. Then what you're gonna do is you're gonna rip that piece of paper out of your journal, you're gonna crumble it, and you're going to burn it to smithereens. And then you're gonna create a new list called a new blame list. Put the date and the year. New blame list. Then what you're gonna do is you're gonna write your own name because that's the only person to blame for your success.