Matthew Hussey explains why men are drawn to uncertainty and shares a conversation script for women to use when approaching someone they like. He reveals that well-timed compliments are the most powerful way to keep a man interested, and offers a downloadable guide with his five most effective ones.
Questions this episode answers
Kathleen (written question).
“We really don't know each other that well, do we? I'm Kate.”
Compliments.
“Empathy is our best policy.”
A "five compliments" guide; URL presented as com/compliments.
Chapters
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Hello everybody, this is Matthew Hussie with Love Life. Do you know the number one most powerful technique you can use to get any man addicted to you and only you? Take a second to see if you can figure it out. Don't worry if you can't guess what it is. It's simple to use, but it's also easy to overlook, which is why most women will never use it. I'll tell you what this subtle trick is in just a moment. But first, let's get to the episode. We have another question coming in today. This one's a written question from Kathleen. I volunteer with a guy and I like him and want to get to know him better. What should I do to take the next step? So look, I'm just gonna give you something to go and say to him. We're gonna keep this nice and simple. You're gonna go and say this to him and it's gonna do two things. It's gonna get you talking to him and actually engaging properly and getting to know him, but it's also gonna create a little spark by showing him that you're a little bit attracted in a really easy way. So the way that you're gonna do this, first you're gonna say, where'd you next see him? Say, we really don't know each other that well, do we? I feel like we need to know more about each other and allow that to begin the conversation. Okay, but you can say something else after that. You can say, I'm Kate. Let's start. Why don't we just start again? Me and you, we're gonna start again. All right, I'm Kate. And then you start that way. Okay? So he's gonna say, I'm Adam, and then you're gonna have a conversation. But you can say somewhere in that you can say, you know, it's like I keep seeing this cute guy over there, and I realize I know nothing about you. And then keep talking. The nice thing about this is, firstly, you're not saying, I keep seeing this hot guy. over there, which is a little more forward. You're saying, I keep seeing this cute guy over there. I realize I know nothing about you. Every, I feel like every guy wishes that more women would just say that when they think they're hot. Because if every woman that thought you were hot just said, I saw you over there, you look cute. I realize I know nothing about you. That would at least make us feel like, oh, we can talk to this person. And they do think that we're attractive and this could go somewhere. okay, that's it. I told you this in a previous episode. Men live for the maybe. They live for the maybe. So this is a little maybe moment. Okay? So that's all you're gonna do. We don't know each other very well, do we? I'm Kate. I keep thinking there's this one. There's this cute guy over there I know nothing about, and let him carry on from there. He now has it firmly in his mind that you think he's cute. He now has every incentive to pursue you, and you really didn't do very much at all. So that's it. I will speak to you soon. This is Matthew Hussey from Love Life. Go follow me on Facebook, facebook.com/matthewhussey and I look forward to speaking to you in the next episode. Now, onto the answer to the question that I asked you at the start of the show. What's the number one most powerful technique to get any man addicted to you? Compliments. It sounds simple and it is. A well given compliment will make him melt in your hands, but the exact words you need to use are crucial and easy to mess up. That's why I've created a special guide for you where I give you my five most powerful compliments that you can give to any man to create a deeper connection. To download your five compliments guide just go to com/compliments.
