This is a podcast episode titled "(Rewind): Unsure If The Person You're Dating Is Right For You? Listen To THIS" created in April 2022. The content features Matthew AI and Matthew Hussey discussing dating advice, focusing on how to determine if someone is right for you in the early stages of dating. The episode includes promotional segments and a live event announcement for a free training called "Dating with Results." The conversation is interspersed with other speakers but centers around Matthew AI and Matthew Hussey's dialogue on relationships and dating.
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NMLS 696891. what's up, everybody? It's Matthew Hussey with the Love Life Podcast. If you find yourself struggling to know whether someone you're dating is right for you, if you're plagued by indecision, doubt, worrying that you're compatible, not knowing whether to keep investing in this person you're seeing right now, this is going to be an episode that really helps you clarify. It's taken from a live moment from me on stage in one of my live events. We had an audience there in the room with me and I was talking about the early stages of dating and how to know if someone is right for you. I think you're really going to enjoy this. Check it out and let me know what you think in the reviews on iTunes. And before you start the episode, I want to make sure everybody knows on the 19th of April. That's this month. I am holding a free live training called Dating with Results. It's going to last for about 90 minutes. You're going to be able to see and watch me live coming from LA talking about how to make the most of your dating life this year. If you feel like you've been banging your head against a wall, not getting results, if you feel like you keep dating the wrong people, if you keep getting involved in game playing with people or toxicity, or frankly, people who aren't serious wasting your time, this session is going to change all of that. It's going to be highly practical. It is going to be me giving you a roadmap for finding love this year, for having your energy actually pay off in this area. All you need to do to register and reserve your spot on this live training is go to datingwithresults.com I will see you over there. That's datingwithresults.com if you have to pause the episode right now, go over there, register and then come right back and listen to the episode. Now join me in this moment of me on stage in one of my live events.
When you are actually ready to know who someone is and to sort through that. I don't mean sort through if they bring you immense trauma and toxicity and all of that. It's not your job to sort through that. But I mean, to, you know.
That.
Gradual illuminating of who we are that happens when you actually take time with someone to get to know them and they get to know you. And you know sometimes there are things where you're like don't love that.
Don't love that.
But you see that the raw materials.
That they have are actually very very good.
They're quite beautiful. Again I'm not saying there's a giant red flag that gets thrown up but you say but they're really attractive and we have great chemistry. I'm not saying that. I'm saying when you can see that someone's who they are as a human being and the kind of teammate they would be is really solid. And then it's the business of knowing what you're willing to make peace with. And of course, we always we tend to forget this someone else is going to have to make peace with certain parts of us.
Right?
We don't come perfect. A friend of mine in London went through the thing, you know, where his mum, he kept leaving relationships over and.
Over and over again and his mum.
Said to him, you know, what's going on?
He said, I just, I feel like.
You know, there's always something better. There's always, you know, there's more. I shouldn't have to settle. I could get everything in one person. and she said, I hate to be the one to break it to you, but you're not perfect. What you're asking for right now, you're not bringing. And so I think that there's a, when people fall in love too quickly, I often think they're not ready. And when people never fall in love, I often think they're not ready. Both can be true. Because if we never fall, if we never like anybody, it's almost we're discounting people all the time on things that we perhaps shouldn't be discounting them on. Assuming we're in the dating game, you know, if we're meeting one person a year, then it can, everybody isn't a great sample group. But if you are in the process of meeting people, dating, getting to know.
People.
We, you know, there's, there really.
Is, there's beauty in people.
There's beauty in people and people come alive when they feel seen and understood and not judged.
I hope you enjoyed that moment, everyone. Thanks for listening. And again, make sure before you go anywhere, you sign up to that Dating with Results live training that's happening on the 19th of April by going to datingwithresults.com see you in the next episode.
