How Your Words Will Increase Your Motivation?

NLP trainer Mayur Bardolia shows how swapping "I wish" or "I want" for "I'm going to" and "I'm looking forward to" can boost your motivation for any task. Rate yourself 0-10 before and after changing your self-talk to see the shift.
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Hello friend, my name is Mayur Bardolia. I am an NLP trainer, counselor, author, and hypnotherapist. Today I am going to share with you a small technique which can increase your motivation. Now People come to me with just very common problem, which is how can we just start off, right? We want to do so many things, we don't know how to start. And I want to do, and they just make so many plans, right? But they never kick off, they never start off, they never carry on, and they suffering of lack of motivation. Perhaps you might be having the same problem, right? So in just next 2 to 5 minutes, I'm going to share with you a very small technique About how to improve motivation by just changing some words. Yeah, some words you say to yourself, and when you change those words and replace with some new words which I'm going to share with you, you will see the dramatic improvement in your motivation. So are you ready for that? Let's start our journey. So let me help you out how to use this technique so effectively. Now generally, when people come to me, they share this many problems. I mean, they want to do this many things. First of all, when they say that I wish to do this task, or most probably people will say I want to do this task, right? So there are some examples I'm going to share with you. You might have some other areas where you wish to improve. So let's say, for example, maybe you are saying, I want to increase my sales figure. I want to solve my problems. I want to be more positive or more productive. And how? I want to learn and study more. Okay, maybe you're saying, I want to focus on my business. Now when you say this sentence to yourself Tell me, where is your motivation level? Now, this is the scale of motivation, right? Zero means you're not motivated at all, or least motivated to do certain activity or certain task. Five is average motivated, and ten means highly motivated. That means you want to do it. You want to start right now. So let's say, where is your motivation right now? Right? You can choose at least one task out of this. And find out where your scale is at. Maybe you are at number three, or maybe you're at number two. So you get to decide now. And maybe you're not too sure where I can be. Let's stick to number five. You want to do, but you don't want to do. Yeah, you want to do, but you don't want to do. So let's say now the magic begins now. Let's say for example, what if you say? Just change the word to I am going to, right? I am going to solve my problems. I am going to be more positive and more productive. I want to— instead of I want to, I'll say I'm going to increase my sales figure. Now notice your motivation level. Has it improved? You need to say to yourself, and the best thing is you need to grab the pen and paper and just write down on piece of paper. That's the best idea. I would suggest that. Secondly, not finished here. What if you say, "I am really going to," right? Say to yourself, "I am really going to be more positive and productive." I am Really going to solve my problems. I'm really going to do this task, and notice the motivation level. Have you seen the improvement yet? You might be noticing, right? Write down on piece of paper. I'm really going to then whatever your task is. What next? What if you just say to yourself, I'm looking forward. To, right? Okay, so I'm looking forward to do this task. I'm looking forward to increase my sales figure. I'm looking forward to focus on my business. And I'm looking forward to be more positive and productive, right? Now notice the scale again. You might be noticing a slight or major improvement in your motivation, right? If you write down, find out where is your motivation. Now, am I finished now? Not yet, actually. Now, what if you say, I'm going to find ways to do this stuff. Now, this is really interesting. When you say this sentence to yourself. Your mind will automatically find ways to make these things happen, right? Try out on yourself, right? I am going to find ways to increase my sales figure. And notice shift in your mind, where your mind is shifting, where it's focusing now. So I'm going to find ways to be more positive and productive. I'm going to find ways to focus on my business. So notice the motivation level now, right? Am I finished? No. Maybe you're noticing that your scale is at number 8 or 9, or maybe more than number 10, right? Based on where your initial scale was. Finally, when you say, I'm expecting, right? I'm expecting to do this task. I'm expecting to increase my sales figure. I'm expecting to solve my problems. I'm expecting be more positive and productive. I'm expecting to learn and study more. Right? Isn't it cool? When you say, I expect, that means your mind automatically wants to do, right? It will find ways, it will find strategies to make it happen. Now, just try, I mean notice, where was your initial scale? And now where it is, it doesn't really matter that if it's in you know if it's a number ten or not. Progress is better than perfection. If your motivation level is slightly improved, it should help you. It will help you in fact. So what about the motivation from I wish to to I'm expecting or maybe I'm going to? It's not necessary that you might notice number ten on here. Right? You may notice number 10 in here, number 10 on here, maybe number 8 in here. So you just need to find out what words are best suitable for you to improve your motivation. So try out on yourself, share feedback with me. If you want to know something more about some coolness techniques, why don't you just go on to my website www.mayurbardolia.com? And I've written nearly about 90 articles, many inspirational motivational articles Go on to articles.mayurbardolia.com, and if you want to gain better clarity on many different topics and many different techniques, I can help you out with that. I'm in the profession of helping people out to solve their problems, right? Help people out to achieve their goal. So my number is 9737046050, and you can email me on mayurbardolia@gmail.com, and you can catch me on Facebook if you want. I'm on Facebook, facebook.com/mayurbardolia. If you want to see more of my videos, go on to YouTube channel, youtube.com/mayurbardolia. I hope you enjoyed today's video. Thank you for joining, and enjoy— get motivated by just changing few words. Take care.










