Rate the friendship in your marriage 1–10

25 Sept 2026 · 1 min

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In this brief advice video, the speaker encourages viewers to honestly evaluate the current level of friendship in their marriage using a 1‑to‑10 scale. After rating, they are asked to choose one small, phone‑free or enjoyable activity to practice together within the week—such as a better question, a focused conversation, or a simple act of fun. The speaker stresses observing the emotional response during this practice and emphasizes that rebuilding friendship does not require a massive overhaul; instead, it grows through consistent, ordinary moments, one step at a time.

Take an honest look at the friendship level in your marriage right now. On a scale of 1 to 10, where would you put it? Second, choose one small way to invest in friendship this week. One better question, one phone-free conversation, or one small act of enjoyment together. Then notice what happens in your own heart as you do it. You don't have to overhaul everything at once. Friendship is rebuilt on ordinary moments, one at a time.