A married believer should stop waiting for their spouse to meet their needs and instead focus on loving them well first. The shift comes from holding yourself to a God-centered standard, motivated by obedience to Jesus rather than guilt or performance.
When you move the focus from what your spouse should do for you to what you will do before God, you begin holding yourself to a higher standard. You stop waiting to be loved well and start choosing to love well first. You commit to becoming a better person for your spouse, not out of guilt or performance, but out of obedience and love for Jesus.
Consistency Over Intensity: Why Small Faithful Habits Last | Christian Podcast
Busy vs Intentional: The Difference That Changes Everything | Forward Path Ep 39
