Melissa Gendreau presents the 100% spouse model, a Christian approach where each partner loves and serves the other daily, puts their spouse first, and actively supports their growth instead of just reacting to behavior.
So let's look at a 100% spouse model instead. This is the model I believe aligns best with God's design, and it's the coaching program I teach my marriage coaching clients. The foundation is on loving and serving your spouse daily. You put them first. It's on a daily basis finding ways that you can love your spouse, serve your spouse, put them first. It's trying to find ways that will help their day, make them smile, have things be easier for them, and help them be the best version of them because you're in some way helping or encouraging or cheering them on. It's not reactionary to how they're treating you, but if that's both of your intention, you both benefit.
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