Hesitation is ruining your life | Mel Robbins #Shorts

Hesitation will keep you spinning for decades. And what it means is you're ready to change. You've made a decision to change. You've made the plan and you've simplified it down into simple things that you can do. But now I'm hesitating, Mel. I mean, I have my plan. I know I should be reaching out to 5 people a day. I know I should be going to the gym. I know I should be showing up at the hospice training. I know I should submit the application. I know I should put my dating profile online. I know I should start cleaning up the back room, but I can't seem to do it. I need a job, but I can't look. I need to get control of my money, but I can't open my bills. The only solution when hesitation is the trap is you have to take action. You have to stop waiting to feel ready. I feel like I constantly talk about this 'cause we all fall into this trap. Whether you are stuck overthinking or you're stuck because you're worried about what your friends are gonna think, or you know, you feel cringy, or you think there's a perfect time, or you're not quite sure today's the right day because the sun's behind the clouds and the wind is picking up and maybe today's not the day I should do this. There is no perfect day. There is no one coming, you're never going to feel ready, motivation is garbage, and you will be stuck for the rest of your life until you take action. It's— it really is black or white like that. You have to stop waiting to feel ready. You have to stop waiting for motivation. You have to stop waiting for confidence and courage. This is the trap of hesitation, and you will be in this trap until you get moving. The only way out of this trap is to shut your mouth, turn off your brain, and move your feet. Period.