Mel Robbins says the problem isn't your situation, it's your attitude, energy, and actions. Stop comparing yourself to others, say yes to things, and close off escape routes. If you've genuinely tried to improve and nothing changes, then make a decisive move.
And that's why I think if you lower expectations and you stop comparing and you expand your energy and you say yes and you close the exits and you really just be where your feet are in this chapter, you'll be shocked by what can happen in a year. Yeah. That some of the most favorite people that you have ever met in your life, you can meet in a town where there are more cows than people. And you can surprise yourself by how you can be content and happy in the chapter that you're in, even if it's not the same as some of the chapters in your past where you were wildly happy. And I think that's a beautiful thing to know that any time in life where you're questioning, is it me? Or is it the situation? What I know for sure is that if you change nothing, nothing changes. Yeah. And if you change the one thing that you can, which is you, your attitude, your energy, your actions, your mindset, everything changes. And I also love this list because if you're really questioning whether or not you are at the wrong job, or this relationship has run its course, or it is time for a change, and you are questioning, should I move? Should I not move? Should I change? You can go through this list. And if you go, check, nope, I'm not comparing. Check, yes, I'm bringing energy. Check, yes, I'm putting in 100%. Check, yes, I've changed to try to change how this feels and nothing's changed. I want you to know, It is time to make the decision and change.
Oprah Winfrey: How to Find Your Unique Purpose, Authentic Power, and Calling in Life
