This Trick Erases Anxiety in 24 Hours | Mel Robbins #shorts

I hate confrontation, Mel. Like, if I have to talk to the guy who did our landscaping and argue about the fact that the trees weren't pruned and I gotta argue about money, I hate that. I will defer it and move it in my calendar for 3 days. Here's what we do. Are you ready? Yes. You've got a phone. I've got a phone. Right before you do it, we're about to employ the 5-second rule. In my mind, I ask myself, how, how much am I dreading this on a scale of 1 to 10? It's a 9. I don't wanna do this at all. I put an alarm for 24 hours from today and I write dread talking to landscaper as my thing. Took me 3 seconds to do that right then. 5-second rule. I make the call, I rip the bandaid, I do it no matter what. I rip the bandaid, I do it, I get it over with. Force yourself to do it. Here's what's gonna happen. The next day, the alarm's gonna go off. If you even remember what this was a day later, Ask yourself at that moment, what do I register the dread that it was talking to landscaper? It's a 2. It's a 1 if I even remember it. What happened? The human mind is wired where right now all you did, nothing happened. You feel better. Why? Time elapsed. Nothing else. Time went by. What if you could fast forward those 24 hours and feel the 1 or 2 now? I call it fast forward your feelings. I literally, I say to myself, I'm I want to feel the way I do now 24 hours ago before I do it. And if you do this 2 or 3 times, you will realize all it is is perception. All that happened is perception. You are in charge of your mind. So right before I make that call, I go, I'm going to feel a 2 now because in a day I'm not even going to remember this. You know what? Before I count 5, 4, 3, I'm going to feel the same way I do in 24 hours now because I so know that that's how it's going to be. I feel better now. Let's make this call and get it over with. I've just Tricked my mind and traveled into the future knowing this is how I will feel.