How to Banish Virtual Meeting Boredom - Nir And Far
11 Dec 2025 · 0 min
This is an AI-rendered podcast episode of Nir Eyal’s article "How to Banish Virtual Meeting Boredom" (April 1, 2024). It diagnoses why video meetings cause fatigue (close eye contact, harder nonverbal cues, limited movement, self-view causing self-criticism → higher cognitive load) and urges conservative scheduling: cut superfluous meetings, prefer asynchronous communication, require briefing documents/agenda, and reserve video for important meetings. It also gives host- and team-level tactics: start meetings with briefing reading (Amazon example), move quickly to consensus, set norms for chat/raise-hand, pause to invite responses, encourage short Socratic questions, and let people drop off if not needed.
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Spending hours or all day in video conferences leads to fatigue. We maintain close eye contact. Conveying gestures and nonverbal cues takes more work than it does in person. Our movement is limited since we have to sit before a computer. Seeing ourselves on the screen invites self criticism. All of these tax our attention to hack back unnecessary meetings Understand that the sole purpose of a meeting is to gain consensus on a specific issue.
Welcome to the near and Far Podcast. This is the voice of Near Eyal, but it's not really me. This episode is an AI rendering of one of my recent articles. I hope you enjoy this episode and for the latest posts Please subscribe@nearandfar.com How to banish Virtual Meeting Boredom can virtual meetings be as effective as in person ones? It's one thing to eliminate distractions in meetings, it's another to do the same in virtual meetings. Now that virtual teams are becoming a norm, many coworkers have never met each other in person, yet they're expected to work every day toward a shared goal. Rapport and trust become even more crucial in virtual workplaces, but also may be trickier to establish. I've written extensively on how teams can have more effective meetings. For virtual teams, many of the overarching practices are the same, but there are a few extra steps virtual teams can take. Have distraction free meetings Schedule fewer meetings before you try any other methods for distraction free meetings, start here. Be conservative about scheduling meetings. In a Zoom survey, 71% of professionals said the information shared on some video calls could have been disseminated in chat or email. It's no secret that cutting superfluous meetings is key to reducing distraction and promoting a healthy, functional workplace. For virtual workplaces, that's more true. Scheduling only important meetings is critical to strong communication between virtual teams without burnout. For example, research shows that compared to audio only meetings, video conferencing leads to richer interactions. Yet other studies show that spending hours or all day in video conferences leads to fatigue. There are four reasons for that. We maintain close eye contact. Conveying gestures and non verbal cues takes more work than it does in person. Our movement is limited since we have to sit before a computer. Seeing ourselves on the screen invites self criticism. The cognitive load is much higher in video chats. All of these tax our attention to hack back unnecessary meetings. Understand that the sole purpose of a meeting is to gain consensus on a specific issue. Cut any meetings that are actually social engagements, event updates, or brainstorming sessions. Your virtual team may hold social engagements online, but don't falsely advertise them as meetings Remember that face to face virtual meetings or synchronous communication should be rare. First, try using asynchronous communication such as email or a group messaging app to solve problems or find information. There's a reason why this meeting could have been an email is a meme. The person who calls a meeting should create a meeting agenda and write a briefing document that attempts to solve the problem at hand. Only people who need the meeting will jump through hoops to schedule it, and a briefing document will help participants make a decision faster.
Practicing conservative scheduling will boost employees trust that their leadership and co workers value their time and make an effort to respect it. It's no secret that cutting superfluous meetings is key to reducing distraction and promoting a healthy, functional workplace. For virtual workplaces, that's more true once your organization is left with only virtual meetings that matter. There are a few techniques meeting hosts and participants can use to eliminate distraction. The Meeting host Move things along Often people zone out during meetings because they're taking too long. By sending the briefing document described above, everyone can get up to speed before the meeting. There's no need to present mind numbing slides or a lecture when everyone already knows what decisions need to be made. At Amazon, meetings start with time set aside for reading the briefing document. Then the rest of the meeting is spent deciding on the course of action. Based on the briefing document's recommendation, everyone chimes in to build a shared commitment around the next steps the team will take as the meeting organizer move to consensus and commitment quickly. Ask for FaceTime virtual teams can't be in the same room, but they can be face to face. If your organization has a phone call culture, advocate for a switch to video calls with the video on. Yes, studies show that too many virtual meetings with video can lead to fatigue and thus low productivity. But if you schedule only important meetings, this shouldn't become an issue. Video calls in small doses increase engagement. In the Zoom survey, 67% of professionals said having video on allows them to create deeper, more trusting connections with colleagues. 75% reported feeling more connected when their camera is on, and the same percentage said video improves the quality of the discussion. If your office has a hybrid environment with some employees working from home and some in the office, ask everyone to tune in on their device. This allows everyone to see each other's full face. If in office people share a single screen, they look like ants at the end of the table. Establish team norms have you ever asked does anyone have any questions on a video call and heard crickets? It may just be that participants didn't know whether they should come off mute and speak. Type their questions in the chat or in the Q and A box or raise their hands. Establish standard practices for how people can participate. Repeat them at the beginning of each meeting. If anyone has a question or wants to jump in, please use the Raise hand button. Pause for 10 seconds after asking something. If you pose a question to participants but out of discomfort from sitting in silence, move on too quickly. The meeting will seem like a monologue when the same person drones on, people will turn to their email, Internet tabs, or otherwise multitask during your meeting. A mix of voices keeps a video call engaging, so pause to encourage people to speak. Engage the team Inspire interactivity by using the Socratic method and asking the team questions. Take a cue from reporters and expert interviewers. Ask one simple question at a time. Avoid double barreled questions like what are your thoughts on option A versus B? And can we launch this seamlessly? People will lose their train of thought. Set expectations for attention. Encourage people to be fully present by giving them the autonomy to decide if they should be there. Open the meeting by telling participants that they are free to hop off the call if they are not needed to make the decision at hand.
All meeting participants turn your video on. Having the camera on doesn't just increase connection among team members it holds participants accountable for listening and contributing. Hide your video feed. Rather than fight the urge to gaze at yourself in the video chat, which leads to fatigue, hide your feed from your view. Most video conference software allows this in zoom. Hover over your video. Click the ellipsis button and choose Hide Self View in Microsoft Teams. Go to your video menu, click on the ellipsis and select Hide for me. Put your phone on. Do not disturb or turn it off or put it on silent and flip it face down on your desk or place it in another room. Set your status to away on group chat. Block notifications by setting your status to away or in a meeting. Close your Internet tabs. It's too tempting to click to a tab to answer an email or read an article. Before you know it, a few minutes have passed and you didn't register anything, the meeting host said. If you don't want to close all tabs, create a new window for the video call and minimize your web browser with the open tabs. Unplug your monitor. This way you only have one screen to distract you, not two or three. Take notes by hand. This tip may raise eyebrows. So analog. But if you need to take notes during the meeting, jot them down by hand rather than type them. One study among many found that handwriting with pen and paper leads to higher brain activity and stronger memory recall. The same study also said that participants who used pen and paper completed a Note taking task 25% faster than those who used digital tablets or smartphones. Plus, handwriting notes keep your hands off the keyboard so you're less inclined to multitask during the meeting. Talking to your team through a screen doesn't have to feel like talking to a brick wall. With the right practices, distraction free virtual meetings are possible.