Amber Hollingsworth learned early as a counselor that her job isn't to guarantee sobriety right away. It's to create a safe, supportive experience so clients don't give up after setbacks and will seek help again, building long-term trust over quick wins.
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All these things in there. They're so frustrated by it that they don't want to give it another try when they have that really bad experience, which is honestly probably the first lesson that I learned as a baby counselor. It's probably still the most important lesson that I stay mindful of, and that is my number one goal when I'm helping somebody is not to make sure that they get sober and never do whatever they're going to do again. That's not my goal. My main goal is to make sure that the person has a good experience to the best of my ability. Because if for whatever reason they have struggles later on in their journey, they're not going to be as afraid to either come back to see me, but it doesn't have to be me, but anyone to get any kind of help anywhere. I want them to have a good experience.