Richard R. Ramos argues that a child's loyalty is earned through daily home culture, not assumed. Parents must examine their routines and emotional tone to make sure kids choose family over outside influences, especially in blended families that need to work harder to build cohesion.
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mom and dad. See, loyalty is a gift, and that's a choice that your children make. How is it that these children are making a choice to give their loyalty to all these other people other than the family? That's why we have to look within ourself. What's going on in our homes? What's going on a daily basis? What kind of culture and environment, what kind of nest do our children come home to? That's the key. And if you're a blended family like I am, a stepparent like I am, it's even more of a challenge. This podcast, the Parent Whisperer podcast, I developed it again for the same reason. I've written the books, I'm doing the classes, I've trained other people to do the Parents on a Mission classes, but I also then created the podcast because that's the thing to do today. Everybody's doing it.