Richard R. Ramos explains reciprocity and liking, two psychological principles that shape how kids make choices and trust people. A 14-year-old girl was manipulated by a friend she trusted into abuse connected to Jeffrey Epstein, showing how these principles can be weaponized against children.
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Uh, so the 6 weapons of influence, as he calls them, are reciprocation, liking, social proof, scarcity, commitment to consistency, and authority. Now, in this first episode, Influence Begins with Relationship: Why Children Follow People They Like, and trust. I'm going to explain 2 of the 6 core principles, and then in episode 2, the next— well, in the series, this is the first of a 3-part series. In the next 2 series episodes, I will talk about the other of the 6 that I mentioned. But today I'm going to talk about reciprocity and the principle of liking. I was listening to a young lady, um, tell her story about how she got influenced by her friend to unfortunately become a victim of this whole Jeffrey Epstein saga or scandal that, that we've all been, uh, hearing about recently. Now, she had no idea, she said, uh, in her story she had no idea what she was in for, but her friend did. And when it was all over— and at the time she was only 14 years old— she was furious at her friend, but she was also very confused. I mean, you can imagine, at 14 years old, this older pervert and everything that, you know, she went through.