A YouTube conversation led by Robert Whitfield MD about why medical diagnosis often leaves patients feeling gaslighted. Key themes in this chunk: clinicians facing genuine diagnostic uncertainty; the skill shift from listening for clues to listening for what's unsaid; patient perceptions of being disbelieved or "gaslit" by the medical system; and the problem of diagnostic labels (e.g., fibromyalgia, migraine, chronic fatigue) being treated as end-points rather than starting points for care.
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The patients are super frustrated because they've talked to providers, and I don't think any provider ever wants not understand what's going on. Super frustrating when you don't. But if you're faced with a group of patients like we have all the time, pretty rare that you're going to know exactly what's going on, like, all the time. So you got to get, you know, wrap your head around that. And that can be a challenge. Then you have to be like, super, like you are, you know, used to listening. And then you'll be like, ah, yeah, that makes sense. So now it's the opposite. Like, instead of listening for clues, you have to listen to what's not being said.
Yeah, absolutely. Absolutely. And, you know, I think the. The other thing that obviously leads to so much problems is people feeling like there's gaslighting or other things that have happened in the medical community where they're not being believed or understood. And I think one of the other things, and I imagine you see this and a lot of your work too, which is, you know, that diagnostic say label being the end point for people. And I think so many times people get like, the fibromyalgia diagnosis, the migraine diagnosis, the chronic fatigue, you know, all these types of diagnosis, whether they're a conglomeration of, you know, symptoms like a syndrome or a true diagnostic, and it's like the end points, right?
