Samaira Bangatufts university, Tufts University · startups and sidequests

This One Habit Is Destroying Your Relationships

11 Jan 2025 · 1 min

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In this brief motivational monologue, the speaker highlights a common relational habit: constantly waiting for others to express appreciation or love. By fixating on why others don’t say nice things, people miss out on genuine happiness. The speaker argues that true joy and even health benefits arise when we proactively share love and appreciation with the people we care about, rather than waiting for it to be given. The message urges listeners to stop holding back, express love openly, and experience the resulting emotional and physical well‑being.

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How often in our minds are we thinking, why doesn't the other person say nice things to me? Why doesn't the other person express their appreciation for me? Week after week, month after month, year after year, our whole lifetime, we just keep waiting for others to express their love to us. We forget that it's not when we expect love that we get happiness. It's when we express our love that brings us real joy in our heart. Don't hold yourself back. If you love someone in your life, share it with them openly, and you will see how these things which are seemingly so disconnected with your health, how much happiness, joy, and health they bring you.