Siobhan Wilcox draws on 25 years of experience to explain that most ghosts aren't evil. Many are children, protective ancestors, or traumatized people stuck by grief. A small minority who were abusive in life stay harmful, while some encounters come from dark non-human energies or spirits defending sacred land like burial grounds.
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Hey, guys. Welcome back. Siobhan Wilcox here again. This is a series the Ghost Secret Masterclass. And I'm answering questions I've received throughout all of the work I've done for the last 25 years. These questions I'm answering here, why do spirits get stuck? I answered that in the first video for you. And then can they harm me? Was the last video. I answered that question for you. And the answer to that is, unfortunately, yes, not always deliberately, because this one is all about, are they evil? And I want to talk about that a lot more about this concept. You know, we have media creating all of these horror. I can't watch her at all. It's just too much for me. Which you think is kind of strange seeing that work with ghosts all the time as their therapist. But I cannot watch horror. It's just too much for me completely. So what I have to sometimes do with very, very dark energies in the work I do on an ongoing basis. But those energies are not always earthman spirits. So when I looked at ways in the last video about how spirits can harm us, the main reason they create harm for us is that they have no body. They don't have this physical form here. They cannot feed themselves, they cannot eat food, they cannot drink coffee. They cannot have some. So they have no way of sustaining their life force. And because of that, they. Not deliberately, but just by being in our presence, they drain our energy. They reduce our life force energy for us. They become like, no, there's a phrase, hungry ghosts, where they are literally feeding off of us. It's not a deliberate act, but it is an act that occurs and it is resulting sometimes in us creating the physical illness that the ghosts died from into our bodies. Or that's an extreme case. Or they actually. We end up in a situation where we are just exhausted because they're in our space. Now. One of the side effects that occurs when I come in and I clear energies from people's homes and properties or their energy field, because sometimes they're literally trapped in the energy field of human is they feel grief because they've actually let something go that became almost like an old friend to them. Even though. And I've had so many clients come back to me and say thank you for letting me know I would feel grief. I just became overwhelmed with grief. I didn't understand it. And I felt like I was so sad and I was crying. I'm like, what was I grieving? You're grieving. Literally a friend or an energy that's with you for so long. In some cases since you were a child, sometimes it's a recent experience. You just moved in the house, the spirit was there. But a lot of times people have had spirits with them for long periods of time. And so they are so used to that energy, even if it isn't, if it's a draining energy for them, it's. It's still a relationship, even if it wasn't a serving relationship. This is maybe a toxic relationship, you know, but even, you know, when you just. Even to put it into relationship situation, if you were to divorce somebody, even if that was a toxic marriage with a narcissist, you still grieve the loss of that relationship because there's a part of you that was used to that, even if it wasn't a serving relationship. And in some cases, as I said in the very first video, those spirits are sometimes trying to support. They're trying to serve, they're trying to continue to help from the other side. So they're like a supporting energy. So this question I get asked, are they evil? Is an interesting one, right? Because, and this is how I, I put it, if they were evil or not nice or honorary or grumpy or aggressive or abusive while they were in this body, in their body, right? They're going to be like that when they're out of their body. So, yes, on occasion I've had to face off with some very unpleasant ghosts or earthbound spirits. Literally face off, like, bring it, right? But the truth is that that's just a small percentage of spirits because the majority of spirits that get stuck are not like that. They're small children. They're mothers who wanted to keep their children safe. They're people that have been abused by a darker energy. And now they don't want other people to be abused. They're people that are trying to hold a sacred land sacred. And so they made a commitment to be the holders of that land. And then they pass and they don't leave because there's a commitment to be safe and hold that land sacred. Of course, if we come on that land and then we try and do ridiculously stupid things to that sacred land, right, then we may get into trouble. Because I only met a, a woman a few weeks ago who had bought a house. And every time she was in the house, she felt unsafe and people kept trying to push her down the stairs. And this was. I was. She was telling me the story after the fact because she. This was years prior to. So I watched. She wasn't a client, but it Was a perfect story because that would appear to be evil, right? That would appear as if somebody was deliberately trying to harm that person from a spirit. But the truth was that they were. It was a burial ground. The house had been built on desecrated land and it had angered the, the spirits that were there to protect that sacred land and hold the ancestors lineage sacred. And so she brought in a native American shaman, He did ritual and they made offerings to the land and the land went into peace. And that's a lot of the work I do with my clients is I, I'm the therapist for the ghost. So I figure out what will, what needs to happen so that the land can be in peace and harmony. The people who live in the home and property can be in peace and harmony and the spirits can move across to the other side. It's a, it's a beautiful work. It's a very emotional work for me. I, I cry a lot because I, I get to witness forgiveness, I get to witness release, I get to witness letting go. I get to witness and moving on of the soul. You know, I have to, to work with that soul that's trapped. I really need to show them, express to them, make them understand and know that they've outstayed their welcome. That on the other side there is a lot of light, beauty, love, peace, harmony waiting for them. That their soul can have a new evolution on the other side. Not repeat pattern the evolution it got stuck into on this side. I, I always feel honored to do this work. And when I send recordings to my clients, you know that most of the time many of them call me the next. We always have a call back in a few days after the sessions and, and they're crying because it's emotional work. They can feel the movement, they feel the grief too because they've let the spirits go. But they also know that by letting the spirits go, they've moved them into a place where they can evolve. They can do their life review. They can actually put peace into their own soul, into their soul that was trapped and disembodied. So this question, are they evil? Is a very multi layered question. But the simple answer is if they were evil in their body, they're going to be evil out of their body. And that's a very small percentage of humans that I've met and had to move across. But there are dark energies there, but it's not necessarily ghosts or disembodied souls. And that's going to be the next video I want to talk about the difference between ghosts and what people call demons and angels. This is another big question I get asked all the time. What is the difference? And I want to explain those differences to you so that you can get a sense and nuances of the energies. So I hope that was serving you. I hope that has given you more insights. I'm really enjoying sharing with you and I look forward to share more in the next video. Okay, guys, bye.
